Submitted by Vic Porcelli, this article belongs to the Poker Rules series. So what is your reaction to a bad beat? Is it standing up and yelling at someone for putting all their chips at risk on a draw after he hit his flush to beat your top pair, top kicker? Or maybe you just tap the felt and say, “nice hand.” The latter of course is the choice I hope you’ll make. If your choice is to yell at an opponent, I’ll bet the next thing you do is to find that ear to tell your bad beat story to. The reason someone yells at an opponent is the exact same reason why we tell our bad beat stories. It makes us feel like we are better players and the other person is inferior and just got lucky. Poker is a very emotional game. We can go from the euphoria of winning a large pot after outplaying an opponent, to the sorrow of putting all your chips in with a nut flush only to lose to a runner runner full house. It’s how we handle those emotions that make the difference. The irony of verbal attacks is hypocrisy. Players attack opponents for doing the same thing they would do. When you play a suited connector in early position, hit your straight, and collect a nice sized pot, you just play an aggressive style of poker. When someone else does it to you, he is a donkey. My favorite example is a bluff gone bad turned good. Player A, bluffs at a pot. Player B folds. A few hands later, Player B bluffs back at Player A. Player A calls. By the time the river card hits, Player B’s hand improves and his bet on the river is no longer a bluff but a value bet. Player A calls and loses the hand. Player A then berates Player B for playing a 7 6 off suit then sucking out a straight, when player A’s bluff a few hands before was a lesser starting hand than Player B’s 7 6. Now let’s look at tableside manner as a strategy. The player who berates other players for making moves, or making loose calls immediately puts himself in the spotlight. “Look at me I’m a loud mouth. If I lose a pot to you it’s not because you’re a good player. It’s because you got lucky.” Trust me, with that attitude people will come after you. They will make more loose calls and re-raise you just to knock you out of a tournament so they don’t have to hear your big mouth anymore. Good solid poker players look at loudmouths as inferior players anyway. “He’s not that good, so he shoots his mouth off to compensate.” That good solid player will trap a loudmouth with a set and come over the top of your big bet with your top pair and top kicker and send you to the rail. On the other hand, a […]
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